Duplicity.......can't stand it. Say what you mean and mean what you say. That's the kind of parent I am. Not always liked by the kids, but they always know where they stand with me. It's the kind of person I am....the kind of friend I am. Don't ask me for "my honest opinion"....unless you want it.
So here are a few things that bother me:
Don't talk behind my back and then smile to my face. If you don't like me fine....I probably don't like you much either.....I can live with that.
If you are having a crappy day, just say so. But for goodness sake move on with it. I have no patience for people who like to play the part of the Martyr....grow up!
Don't ask me if I have a problem with you when it's you who has the problem with me! If I have offended you, tell me. I will probably apologize for it and move on.
When I apologize to you and you accept my apology....mean it. Don't harbor it and bring it back up 7 months from now. I would rather hear you say I'm not there yet, than say I accept your apology and deep down you really don't mean it.
Women....stop playing games. We should be supporting each other, in the workforce and in life. It's not a competition. We each have our strengths.....stop tearing other people down to make yourself look better or continually beat yourself up for your weaknesses .....we all have them.....get over it.
Live, work and play with honesty and integrity. If you are not a person of integrity....you are nothing. At the end of the day things we accumulate mean nothing. It's the person we are and how we are to others that count.
There......I feel much better now. :-)
GermanG
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